When you think of a vibrator, do you immediately think of solo sex? Too bad! Although it is a fantastic toy for moments alone, a vibrator can be a huge enrichment for the sex life of couples. It is not a replacement for a partner, but a powerful tool to enjoy together, increase intimacy and discover new heights.
Here are the main benefits of introducing a vibrator into the bedroom:
- Exploration and New Discoveries
A vibrator is the perfect guide for a mutual journey of discovery. It helps you discover new erogenous zones in each other that are sometimes more difficult to stimulate with fingers or other body parts. This breaks up the routine and adds an element of adventure and curiosity to your lovemaking.
- More Intense Orgasms and Shared Pleasure
For many women, direct, targeted clitoral stimulation is the fastest route to orgasm. A vibrator delivers powerful, consistent vibrations that can lead to more intense and sometimes even multiple orgasms. It’s not only great for the person receiving the vibrations; it can be an incredibly exciting and intimate experience for your partner to see each other enjoy so intensely.
- Playfulness and Variety
Sex should be fun! A toy introduces a new, playful element into the bedroom. It takes the pressure off of always performing in a certain way and invites laughter, experimentation and lightness. Whether you use the vibrator during foreplay or as part of sex itself, it is guaranteed to bring variety and excitement.
- Improved Communication and Intimacy
Using a toy together requires communication. Questions like “What do you like?”, “Faster or softer?” and guiding each other’s hand strengthen the connection. You get to know each other’s bodies in a new way and you share an intimate and exciting secret. This open communication about desires strengthens the emotional bond and trust in each other.
How do you get started?
Choose together: Make choosing a vibrator a fun, joint activity. There are special couple vibrators (that can be worn by both partners at the same time), but wand vibrators or finger vibrators are also perfect to start with.
Start slowly: First use the vibrator during foreplay to explore each other’s bodies. Start on a low setting and discover together what feels good.
Don’t forget the lubricant: Especially when using a vibrator, a good water-based lubricant provides more comfort and an even more intense feeling. 
A vibrator is not a threat to your intimacy, but rather an invitation. An invitation to play together, to discover, to communicate openly and to take your sex life to a new, exciting level. Dare to experiment and discover what this powerful toy can do for your relationship.
If you want to take it a step further, you can choose a couples vibrator.
These vibrators are made to stimulate both of you during sex.
