If you are curious about anal sex but don’t know how to get started, here are some tips and tricks to get you started.
There is a first time for everything, and these guidelines will help you make your first anal session as enjoyable as possible.
How do you prepare for your first time having anal sex?
Talk to your partner with whom you are going to have anal sex.
The first right step is always communicating about what you want to do.
It is best to have this conversation before you are in bed together.
If you want to try something new sexually, it is best to have a conversation before you go to the bedroom.
This way you and your partner can think calmly before you start and get carried away by your excitement.
You also start without pressure because you both know what to expect.
Be clear about what you would like and/or are interested in.
Don’t be too vague, but clearly indicate what your interests are. For example:
- Do you want to be on top of him or do you want to be on the bottom, or both.
- Do you want to start using a butt plug.
- Do you want to be taken from behind.
- Do you want to try prostate milking.
Let them know and speak up.
Don’t expect your partner to have the exact same desires, so listen to them, what they want.
Read up on anal sex.
There are a lot of myths going around that don’t have to be true.
Anal sex shouldn’t be painful.
Things can get a little messy when it comes to anal sex.
You can take an anal douche beforehand so that you are clean inside and as little poop as possible comes out when your partner slides out of you.
You often stay clean and there is no poop to be seen.
But there is always a chance that a little bit will come out.
If you don’t take an anal douche before anal sex, it is almost certain that some will come out.
Keep that in mind.
How to use an anal douche
Take a shower an hour before sex and take the anal douche with you.
Fill your anal douche or connect it to your douche hose (depending on what type of anal douche you have chosen).
Fill it with warm water, not too hot of course because that can be harmful to your body, and certainly not too cold because that can cause painful cramps.
Apply some lubricant to the top of the anal douche so that it can slide in easily.
Once you have slid it in, squeeze the anal douche (the bulb at the bottom where the water is in).
When the water has run in, let it run out again.
Repeat these steps a few times until the water that comes out of you is clear.
Then stop and do not continue.
You also do not want to use the anal douche too often because that can cause irritation.
So use it in moderation (preferably no more than once a week)
Anal lubricant
Using lubricant is incredibly important during anal sex.
There will always be friction if you don’t use lubricant during anal sex.
Friction causes cracks and that can cause many problems.
This is because your butt doesn’t produce any moisture and so lubricate, lubricate, lubricate.
Lubricant gives you a better sensation and ensures that anal sex feels better.
Now there are many different types of lubricant that you can choose from.
Unfortunately, it is not the case that 1 type of lubricant is the best for everyone. 
So you have to try a few things before you find the best lubricant for you.
You can choose to use a silicone-based lubricant for anal sex.
The advantage of silicone lubricant is that it remains smooth, so you don’t have to lubricate as quickly during sex.
This is because the silicone is not absorbed by your body.
It remains on your body.
The disadvantage of this is that it easily ends up on your bedding or on the floor, which is less convenient. Silicone lubricant should not be used in combination with silicone toys.
This will damage the silicone toy.
So when you use a silicone anal toy, choose a water-based lubricant.
You can use a water-based lubricant for anal sex.
Water-based lubricant reacts most to your body because it can be absorbed by your body.
This makes it very personal which water-based lubricant suits you best.
There are also special water-based lubricants that are specially made for anal sex.
The substance is often a bit thicker.
Try a small amount first when you start with a new brand to see how your body reacts to it.
Unlike silicone lubricant, you do have to reapply a water-based lubricant a few times during anal sex because the lubricant is absorbed by you.
The advantage of a water-based lubricant is that it does not cause stains.
Try anal stimulation with anal toys on yourself
When you play with yourself, it is comfortable to try out new things.
This makes it easier to discover what you like and what you don’t like. 
Especially when it comes to anal sex, it is useful if you can train yourself for anal sex before you are actually taken anally.
Start with a smaller anal toy.
Do choose a toy that is specially made for anal sex so that it is also safe to use.
Toys that are not specially made for anal use can get stuck in you and then you have to go to the hospital to have it removed.
So you always need an anal toy for anal use.
When you learn to discover yourself anally, you also know what feels good and what doesn’t.
Then you can also easily tell your partner what you like and don’t like and that makes it a lot more pleasant to get a good feeling from anal sex.
Some people find using a butt plug the most enjoyable stimulation and that is enough anal stimulation for them. Others start with a butt plug as a warm-up for anal sex.
What you like is therefore very personal.
If you want to start with a dildo to feel what it is like to be penetrated anally, choose a smooth dildo without ribs.
With ribs is more for the advanced player who can already relax well anally.
You can then choose a realistic dildo with a wide base at the bottom so that it cannot shoot in or a glass anal dildo.
There are many possibilities to enjoy.
Discover what is the most delicious for you.
Lots of anal fun!
