A strap-on dildo is a dildo that is mounted on a harness so that you can also use it with your penis.
If you fantasize about using a strap-on dildo, then the choice is wide.
There are many different types of strap-on dildos and so it can be difficult to choose a strap-on dildo for the first time.
When a woman uses a strap-on dildo to take someone else, it is very different than when you are taken yourself.
You also use completely different muscles when using a strap-on dildo than you normally use during sex.
So it is certainly even common and you have to practice a bit to be able to make the right movements to be able to penetrate your partner nicely.
You will probably have some muscle pain the next day because you are using muscles that you normally use much less.
So you are certainly not immediately a star in using a strap-on dildo. Practice makes perfect 😊
Before you start looking for your first strap-on dildo, it is good to think about what your expectations are.
What do you like?
What does your partner like to be taken with?
Are you going for a large version? Or are you starting off slowly with a smaller one?
Choose a strap-on dildo together.
A strap-on dildo is in most cases not a toy for beginners.
It is certainly a toy for those who already have some experience with sex and to make a new fantasy come true.
So it is nice if you already have some experience in the field of sex so that you also know what you like.
For men, you have strap-on dildos that are hollow on the inside, so the penis can be slid into the dildo so he can take his partner with it.
A nice idea to have a long time of uninhibited sex without the man coming.
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When you are going to wear the strap-on dildo as a woman, it is important to determine the size.
How thick should the dildo be?
If your partner can easily insert a few fingers thick, you can go for a somewhat thicker dildo.
If in doubt, always choose a thinner version.
Starting too thick can be painful and then the experience with a strap-on dildo is not pleasant either.
You can always go for a somewhat larger one later when your partner has become accustomed to penetrating with a narrower dildo.
You can go for a somewhat longer dildo because during penetration, the entire dildo does not go inside your partner.
So long is allowed, but not too thick for the first time.
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If you as a woman have more experience with using a strap-on dildo, you can also opt for a strapless strap-on.
This strap-on has no harness, but you insert it vaginally so that you can take your partner with the strap-on dildo and are also filled during penetration.
This strap-on dildo is therefore not recommended for starting out, but more for the more experienced players.
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When you have sex with a strap-on dildo for the first time, you really have to get used to it.
You suddenly have a harness hanging on your hips.
Pull it tight so that it is not loose and that it also moves well with your body.
You feel the weight of the dildo and that also takes some getting used to.
Give yourself some time to get used to it.
Have fun together and don’t take it too seriously.
It’s fun to try something new and that really doesn’t go completely smoothly the first time.
The harness can sag a bit, not all positions will be equally easy.
Take your time and have fun together.
Also be sure to use enough lubricant to make everything go smoothly.
When you are a woman and you are going to take your male partner with a strap-on for the first time (also called pegging)
You have to take into account the positions you are going to do.
Doggy style is a great position but it may not be the best position to start with.
The receiver (in this case the man) also has to get used to being taken.
Spooning is a nice position to start with.
Communicate well whether what you are doing feels good.
Enjoy and have fun!
